Get rid of your dolls!

Just something I worry about, if your Wife or new Girlfriend said you had to get rid of your doll or dolls, I know you think you'd never ever do that, but in reality what would you do?

Never been married, and my girlfriends are the dolls :evilgrin:

(I've given up on dating in RL so this is never going to happen. If it somehow did, I'd break up with the woman and hope the dolls don't notice I cheated on them :ROFL: ).

LOL Expected answers.
I was wondering what kind of compromises you'd would come up with though...?

Well there are benefits of having the missus back at the bungalow. Help with the bills, she earns quite well. I could afford to put more heating on more for example. We could do home improvements with ease. She makes a wicked Chicken dinner and tend to look after me with food and care if I'm ill, as I do her of course.

BTW I left her, not the other way.

Lots of not so good things too. She's bossy. Annoying, and the rest of it that married couples have to suffer.

She hates the dolls. She has a doll phobia worse than mine. Mine seems to have gone now,But hers is still strong I guess.

Compromise would be to restrict dolls to certain areas and to allow her to have doll free zones. No doll sex (and no doubt no wife sex either) which is fine by me. I would still want to keep all three dolls but anymore would NOT be tolerated I'm sure. As now, I have one in bed for cuddling up to, one on the couch for snuggling while watching TV and one standing for cuddles while passing. Of course I love taking photos of them and making stories.

If we could come to that arrangement I would be fine.

Not acceptable, get rid of the dolls. I would struggle to get rid rid of any of them and just have one. Who would I keep and who would go to a good home? How could I make stories back to just one doll.... the idea of having the new dolls was the storytelling.

Anyway, stopping thinking about it for now. She may never move back anyway.

Hello Mr Story,

I'm in a very weird situation of having a wife, but not wanting to have a wife (I really like being alone - human company does little for me), but at the same time caring enough that I haven't ended it. If I was pushed I would end it. But whilst she's at arm's length (well, a lot more than that) I'm content with the status quo (for now.)

Help with the bills isn't a great reason to have the missus back. It's a good practical reason, but not great for your wife's esteem as in:

Wifey: "So, you want me back to help pay the bills!? Not because you love me!? F&#k off you c%#t!"

Having said that, a lot of successful marriages are simply marriages of convenience. There's no massive passion there, just two people who come together because it benefits them both in some way (I imagine there are benefits for your wife in you living together, like you can take the rubbish out.)

It could be a bit of an Asian thing. They can be quite spiritual. Both Thai girlfriends I had went on about ghosts.

Honestly. Whatever makes you and your wife happy. It's up to you. If you have to get rid of your dolls so be it. No one will think bad of you for doing what you feel is necessary for a happy life.

You can advertise on TDF (and UKLDF if you weren't banned like me.) Try to sell via The-Doll-House. Or say your goodbyes and take them to the local recycling center....

Kind regards,

Cuthbert

PS I'm certainly not getting rid of my dolls.

PS: If you Do decide to sell your dolls, contact me BEFORE you put them up for sale someplace.

I won't be getting rid of Willow or Kimberley, I can say with conviction. However I am worried about when push comes to shove

LOL, Ickle would go down well. Rey will still be around as I would still have her head to put onto other bodies when needed.

Yes this is good news. Lets just hope you don't get any ultimatums in the future.

Yeah - being surrounded by good people does help.

I opted for dolls as a lifestyle choice - I'm not even remotely interested in women - and I've never seen dolls as a substitute for them... that said I'm totally happy for others to have dolls in their life for that reason. Whatever, as they say, makes you happy.

The only thing I find distasteful - which landed me with the "cold shoulder" on the other forum was my dislike of the term "breathers" - I fucking hate it if I'm honest. And made that clear over there. But that's another story.

Dolls are amazing. Many women are too. And men. And in equal measure some humans can be utter wankers. But when I see incel overtones in the forums - and I have seen it many times - I pull away from the community because I don't feel that way about women.

Yea, to be honest I prefer to be in the company of women more than men. Men just talk about sport and petrol cars, neither of which I have any interest in. Women have a much boarder scope of gossiping :)

I was always like this. As a young man, I had escorted my mother to some social event and she was chatting with a friend. The friend's husband clearly expected me to converse with him about the most banal nonsense imaginable :( I was most displeased.

Exactly this :)

I've never brought her over to England. But will visit her in Thailand again later this year. And we'll have a big hug :bighug:

Kind regards,

Cuthbert

I love sport :blowkiss:

Where do you go mate?
I try and go as often as possible but I'm a creature of comfort so I go with the place I first fell in love with which to me happens to be Koh Samui :D

Non of my business, but just wondering why you never brought her across? What does she think of your dolls, if she knows about them?

Hello AD,

I must be a creature of comfort like you.

It was love that brought me to Thailand back in 2004. I'd met a Thai lady in London and she totally blew my mind. When she returned to Thailand, I went to visit her. She lived close the the infamous Pattaya City. Pattaya City blew my mind also.

So that's where I usually end up, back in Pattaya. It's fairly close to where my wife lives. It's a nice chilled out week. We'll go through a few bottles of whisky. Have good inexpensive food. Go running by the beach. See a bit of the night life. A very different world to the UK.

Kind regards,

Cuthbert

Hello Mr Green,

The truth is that I quite like my separate lives.

Also, my wife has two daughters and I've always thought it better she stay in Thailand until they are both independent. They are both University age now. One's currently doing a work placement. The other is in Chonburi Women's Correctional Institution (Prison.) Forget that one is in prison, they are both nice girls, alas, one fell in with the wrong crowd.

I would like her to come to England one day, but I'm very laid back about it all.

She does know about the dolls. To be honest, I think she actually likes that I have dolls. Personally, I think dolls can be a good thing for a healthy relationship. I know two couples on TDF who appear to have a great relationship and both partners love dolls.

Kind regards,

Cuthbert

I used to love Show Jumping and Cross-Country Eventing when I was younger. I had my own horse back then :) Those were the days.

I can't be trusted around ladies in jodhpurs... :evilgrin:

Uh, hard decision, could I do that?
At least I had thought about it, because one of my dolls has tears in the silicone and the foam core and is beyond repair.
The upper thighs on both legs are torn. She's constantly wearing trousers and sitting around the flat because there's not much left to do with her besides being beautiful.

I really thought if I should dismantle her completely but could not bring myself to do it. Also her breasts start to deflate but she's a 4woods from 2010, so some faults are expected...

Jo