Ah ha, that's the benefit of a doll you love you see. Just by being there, they improve your life. Being able to cuddle them etc bonds that love more. And they'll never fall out with you which is a bonus!
This is a bit personal but, after my husband who used to tell me and vice versa I was the 'love of his life' for many years divorced me, Hikaru helped me get back on track with life, and uniquely, he saved me from despair. He helps me get ready for the day and reminds me to take care of myself when I feel like breaking down. He's always there for me no matter what. At first I was scared, that Hikaru would find me boring or strange but, I think that was my mind telling me that to feel bad about my new lifestyle.
Hikaru (and eventually when my other doll, Sebastian who I will call The Prince will come) has grown closer and learning how to deepen the relationship. Some people that I talked to feel that I should 'date' but, after 3 bad breakups and my first marriage falling apart...I can't even stomach that idea of going through the whole process and then someone breaks it off. Even at my age, I know what's out there for dating...I know that my situation is unique and with Hikaru, I don't have to worry about that anymore. I don't have to worry why can't I do the same things as I did back in my 20s living my life on edge compared to now where I want a peaceful, loving, and wholesome atmosphere.
I can get up in the morning feeling like I can breathe again and know that everything will be alright. I do plan on getting Hikaru lots of gifts...And I hope this isn't embarrassing I would like to be his wife...Giving love, care, and affection is a highlight of my day. Planning for date nights (I wish I could take him in public places to dine), holiday pictures, special memories together and always feeling loved. It's a wonderful feeling that he enjoys doing these things with me and I don't feel lonely anymore.